1. Always pay close attention to her while she is talking. Girl's like people regarding whatever they say as relevant to the topic being discussed of. If it does not relate to the thing that you are talking about then, just smile and nod your head; try making it correlate somehow with whatever your conversation is based upon. The last thing you want to do is, interrupting a girls lines by saying that there is no real relationship between what she is saying and you previously said. This will definitely burn the gasoline inside of her; or in other words, piss her off. Trust me, the last thing you want in front of you is an angry lady. Also, by paying attention to whatever a girl is uttering to you, you can also make her happy. 'Well, at least there's someone who cares!' Thoughts like this will definitely run through her mind if you do so. Other than that, she'll also regard you as to being a thoughtful individual for sparing your ears and precious time hearing her utterance.
2. Try not to let your eyes deviate elsewhere while you are talking to her, because wandering eyes is no good sign while engaging in a conversation with a girl. This point may sound a little like the first, but I'll try my level best to make it seem as distinctive as possible. If your eyes are not fixed on the girl you are conversing with, then it signifies rudeness as well as disregardfulness; these are the hindmost two things that you want running through her head. If you have accidentally done so then, apologize. This will make her feel a whole lot better. If you are lucky then she might even regard you as to being a very sweet person; erasing her every memory of whatever you had previously done. Such will also make you feel as if you're in seventh heaven. If this happens, then you'd probably be running on the streets like a starstruck geezer overwhelmed by something others know not of.
3. Stand still, but not too still; also, try not to strut and fret amidst her presence. Standing too still will give her the impression of you being an un-versatile bugger, like a robot or a rock. Move a little, especially your arms. Let them sway swiftly in the air instead of being subjected to petrifaction. Calm hand movements will make you seem like a confident bloke. Such mannerism in terms of body language and gestures can also at times, attract the hearts of many; especially women. However, try not to over do it as it will just make you look weird. On the other hand, strutting and fretting in front of a girl is also a 'no no.' Actions of this sort easily shows that you're nervous. I understand that talking to a girl is sometimes nerve-racking but try not show it as much as possible. The opposite sex might sometimes perceive that you are feeling uncomfortable or uneasy amidst their presence. You wouldn't want that happening right? Thus, try to avoid strutting and fretting while conversing with a girl.
4. Do not monopolize the conversation. This is something many Romeo's do without noticing. Also, this is bad in a sense that you're shutting out any space for her to give her view on the subject matter. Such will make her feel dejected or fed up. If this persists, then if she was your girlfriend, she'll be walking out on you in no time. To avoid this from becoming a reality, let her monopolize the conversation instead of you doing it. Plus, let her give her views and opinions about the topic you both are discussing of. Treat her like a princess, and do not intervene. After she has vomited whatever thoughts she has, then you proceed. This will make her feel gratified. Engulfed by the joy of finally being able to express her views, she'll definitely be coming back for you; as you're 'easy to talk to.' Oh, and try not to sleep if she goes on talking for hours.
5. Always smile, smirk or laugh when she cracks a joke that at times, isn't necessarily funny. By doing so, you'll make her feel good in a sense that she managed to make you laugh; even if the joke she cracked wasn't really comical. If her joke was really bad, then a little smirk might even suffice. Tolerating a girls jokes will also make her feel comfortable being around you. Plus, she'll also be very fond of you as you appreciate the jokes that she cracks. Remember, nolens volens, try to laugh when a girl says something humorous to you; even if it isn't really ludicrous.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
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