1. Always remember to bring along your wallet. Not only is the wallet an important asset, it can also be a lifesaver in various situations, like for instance a date. Failing to take your wallet along on a date may evoke unwanted thoughts in the mind of the lady you are dating. She may think you of being an irresponsible or a forgetful person. I believe we are aware of the popular saying which states that 'nobody is perfect', but guys, please try and make your date as faultless as possible. Because making a lady get the bill is no gentleman's work. It highlights you as to being a horrid Romeo. Plus, ladies prefer men who are responsible and underwrite; as such qualities will make them feel financially secure amidst the presence of such men.
2. Never flirt with the waitress, even if she is irresistibly hot. This is what most men do unconsciously. Flirting with another woman on your date is the last thing on earth you would want to do, especially in front of the lady that you are dating with. Such behavior will indubitably piss her off. You wouldn't want to be sitting next to an angry lady; trust me. In lieu of that, she may also think of you of being a 'multitask-er' or a womanizer. Short stints like a passionate smile or an unusually sweet manner of talking, directed to another woman can provoke many unexpected thoughts in the mind of your date. Hereon, she'll undoubtedly be keeping a close eye on you. If this persists then she might be walking out on you.
3. Always dress neatly. First impression is very important, especially on your first date; although the dates that follow may be of equal importance, but the first usually gives her a clue of what kind of guy you really are. Dressing yourself in a fancy 'Pierre Cardin' shirt with a pair of 'Crocodile' slacks, followed by a pair of 'Peter Kaiser' shoes, will undoubtedly make you look snappy. Most importantly, you're date will think you of being a very neat, tidy and meticulous person. Also, remember that the manner at which you dress yourself also highlights the cleanliness level of the place you reside in. Neatly dressed men usually equates with homes that are spick-and-span. However, if you do attend your first date shabbily dressed, then it is advisable not to dream of having a second with the same lady. So, to avoid this from occurring, 'dress smart!'
4. Be a gentleman, and pull the chair out for the lady. A tireless act like this will literally put a smile on her face, every time you perform it, as ladies love to be treated in this sort of manner. Like a princess in other words. Please be aware that you may look like her personal assistant or something like that at times but, it is worth every penny, 'trust me.' If your date so happens to wear a coat, then help take it off once she has taken her seat, for this will immaculately highlight your 'Casanova' attributes. 'Action speaks louder than words' is a popular saying that inevitably summarizes all of the above. Also, bear in mind not to try too hard, for she may think of her as to being a burden to you.
5. Always remember to smile. Smiling ensures 'the Senorita you are dating' that everything is fine and she need not worry herself over anything. Even if the bill is costly, 'pay it in a happy manner!' to let her know that you've got it all under control and that paying for it is no big deal; so that she may not regard herself as to being a bit of a burden to you. Apart from that, smiling also delineates that you are having a cracking time. This is what you want 'Miss X' to perceive you of having while on a date with her, as it will make her feel that you are comfortable being amidst her presence. By the way, try to make your smile seem as sincere as possible, because some ladies can tell the difference between a nolens volens smile.
Monday, May 17, 2010
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umm, dude, interesting but, we know all of that already. You wanna write about stuff people don't really realize, sub-conscious stuff we do on dates would be a more interesting read.
ReplyDeletebrilliant vocabulary, a little weak composition.
all and all, you could do better. And i'm judging you to the highest standards.