The Bright and The Dark side Of Life

Well like Keri Hilson said, when love knocks you down, just get back up. Do not succumb to it for if you do, you'll end up living a disastrous life. Trust me on this one, for I've been there a couple of times. Many people in the world today feel as if at times that they're with the perfect guy or perfect girl, but in actual fact, there is no such thing as to being with a 'perfect' partner. Everyone has their flaws, but some people just don't see through those glittering eyes of their spouses. This definitely backs the statement stating that love is blind. You only see what your partner wants you to see. However there's more than them than meets the eye. There's always to sides in a person. There is the bright side and there is the dark side. The bright side is the good deeds that a person performs in his or her life; usually in the presence of another individual. The dark side on the other side is the complete opposite of the bright side. It is usually like a hidden secret amongst family members only, and rarely does reveal itself in the presence of many. This is because there's a fear that if exposed, this dark side will consummate the families much precious remaining dignity.

For instance, I bet no one, straight enough would want to dwell in a relationship with a partner who's been involved in several relationships in the past; most of which ended up with a big fight or some sort of prodigy right? So if that's the case why do certain relationships still proceed? Oh yeah, they're partner has no knowledge at all about his spouses dark past. If he knew, he'd be adamant in knowing why such abnormality occurred in the past. Honestly speaking though, this dark side should be kept a secret and not to be told to anyone, even to the person you swore an oath to share your life's secrets with. For if you do, you're in for a real roller-coaster ride honey. And I ain't bluffing when I say a 'real roller-coaster' ride. Because if everyone did admit of what deep secrets they had, the people whom you are with will feel a little strange being around you. Not that its a bad thing telling the truth, but its just that some secrets should just remain a secret. Anyway, I've never been consummated by any of my deepest darkest secrets, not that I know far too many of them, but I have never been that good in enduring times when love has knocked me down.

Truthfully I'm pretty bad on that account, often losing my appetite and being emotionally disturbed, but when I look back at it, why did I not endure it? Why have I succumb to it when I know that there's more in life than meets the eye? I was clearly not matured enough I guess, but now having experience as my teacher, I am now well prepared for the next time if history were to repeat itself.